Showing posts with label learning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learning. Show all posts

January 01, 2025

Imagining Your Audience

What better way to come back to writing than to have a looking back at the year that was 2024.

This year was quite a big one. It was challenging, a wild rollercoaster ride, and a marathon that seemed to stretch beyond the 42K mark. But hey, we’re already at the end of it. “Yo, Adrian, we did it!”

Since we’re already running late, let’s get on with it. Shall we?

For a timid individual such as I am, I’m not fond of having the spotlight turned at me. The stage would be something on the top of the “Things I’m Scared of” list. The top spot still belongs to the Lady Gaga Illuminati Conspiracy. Coming in for a close second spot is the Paul Is Dead Conspiracy. Is it safe to say I’m a believer of conspiracy theories?



Going back, what made that year different were the times I pushed myself outside the box. The man who was afraid of the spotlight went on to different speaking engagements and actually said things that matter.

It was never on my listed plans for that year to speak to a group, even a mixed group of professionals. But hey, that year was complicated. That year was different. That year was unusual, but good, nonetheless.

The first one back in January (MEPF Town Hall), I was a designated speaker on a refresher talk for my then-group, under Construction MEPF. Not bad for ta first time, and in fact, I was just a replacement being that the first speaker was my then-mentor who was not able to attend the refresher talk. He had to leave for a management-initiated level improvement. And I must say, it worked out well for the both of us.




Honestly speaking, the topic was new to me, and not necessarily my niche but learning’s fun. And as I spoke, I also learned. I went on to do the same talk again to the same group albeit with new members in September for another round of Town Hall.

The second and third quarter of that year focused on further developing my public speaking skillset. I was enlisted on various Learning & Development talks focusing on various topics that would supposedly help me improve in my field. However, what I really got on those talks was the art of public speaking itself. Being that there were different topics, there were also different speakers which meant different approaches and methods were handed out to us.


 

As months passed, I didn’t essentially think that I would be putting such learnings to practice. Not until my lateral movement was finally effective. And I guess that would warrant a story separate from this.

In the last quarter of that year, I transferred to another department. The transfer was highly evident being that from doing field work on site, I would now be seated on a third-floor office space, facing my laptop most of the time.

This was when I heard the wonderful news that I would be one of the speakers on another series of Learning & Development talks. A few months before, I was just one of the audience. By this time, I would be a part of what they would call Learning Advocates.

The experience was surreal. I was new to the team, and to the department. But with what I had, the team trusted that I would be capable of doing a three-day talk involving participants from a wide range linked to the Construction Department – which I was previously a part of.





A quick side trip outside the office led me to another public speaking event, though quite toned down a bit. I was tasked along with other members of our department to provide assistance on the educational advocacy of a private NGO in Valenzuela City. We had the chance of teaching elementary level subjects to 200 students (ranging from Grades 2 to 6). I got the chance to talk about History – something that could be found on my bucket list being that I had been a Rizal fan boy and to be honest, I just wanted to talk about Rizal, Bonifacio, and the whole bunch. I could’ve spoken for a whole hour about it.

Jumping to December, it was a bit unplanned and unexpected, but I got my first hosting gig. I got to host, together with two other friends, the year-end party of the project site I was a part of for the past three years. The project had reached its RFO status this December and we all just wanted to give back and look back to the past five years which the project had run. It was one emotional night for everyone involved, from the top-level managers down to the staffs and crew of workforce that provided help to the project.


 

The cherry on top of that final event was that my significant other was there to witness me goof on stage, with all my unnecessary hand movements, awkward swaying, and carefree touching of phones. Yes, I'm glad she was there to witness that final curtain call.

One last note, I was also under the shadow of alcohol.


Instead of imagining my audience naked, as notable speakers would say, I imagined myself naked. Thanks, free-flowing alcohol.

September 03, 2018

Silencing Resilience

There is nothing worse than failing, except for the fact, perhaps,  that you had given your all - effort, force, time, money, and almost everything - but still failed. Good thing there are things such as these: resilience, second chances which really turns into multiple chances, and redeeming

A scene in the movie "Rocky Balboa" had Rocky and his son, Robert, confronting about the struggle that they have had in their relationship as father and son. Eventually, Rocky spoke this very moving line: "But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth." 

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A scene from Rocky Balboa

There would always be room for improvement, just as there would be enough space for you getting back up and showing that resilience you have in you. Perseverance, determination, aggressiveness, and yes, resilience. These are the virtues that Rocky spoke about. You would know this especially if you have watched the Rocky movie series starting from the first one. He has had losses, but he always got back up and fought his way into the title. That has been his story. Losing and then, winning. That was how winning was done.

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Photo by Frantisek Duris from unsplash.com

This is not to criticize that movie (I love that movie, I like Stallone!), but what if it does not need to be "losing and then, winning" and "just winning" instead? Why not give your supreme effort, strength, heat, and everything in your first shot?

Take for example during examinations in schools, we always say this whenever we fail exams: "I will just review more, and study harder for the next examination." Another one goes like this: "I will spend more time studying and not waste my time for the next examinations."

You know that there will be an exam, and you know that you may fail if you will not study and spend more time for learning; yet, you took it for granted because you know there will be more exams to come which may give you chances to redeem yourself.

From my point of view, I see this idea of resilience as an excuse for incompetence and lack of discipline. Instead of doing the wrong things, why don't we do the right things which will eventually lead us to our aim? Being resilient is good because it shows that you can still go back after a beating. You can still take the hit and move forward despite things crashing onto you.

There is way out though. In safety management, there's a saying that goes like this - Accidents are best prevented when? Before they happen. This means that if you have the chance to stop a scenario from happening, then take it and act upon it.

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The aftermath of a storm in the Philipines from Rappler.com

If you have a chance to stop failing, act upon it. Think of the things that you must change, improve, or retain. A part of being resilient is being able to adapt and change and grow. That being said, not learning and just letting things go on a repeat is not a display of true resilience.

If you're going to waste your chance to go back up, you are just going to silence your chance. What really matters here is that you give not your almost everything, but your everything, instead. All you got for your goal!

Resilience is good, but not until it becomes a habit, a cycle that will just go on repeat. 




*Photos were grabbed from the Internet and all thanks are for those who own it. For sharing purposes only. Thank you for understanding.
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